AND THEY SAY ROMANCE IS DEAD ....!?!

Okay, so something happened to me on a date last week that I just had to write about.

Allow me to set the scene.

Nice restaurant, very good looking guy, yummy food, no awkward silences, an overall great first date and then he asks me this .......


Him: "So, how far do you go with a guy on the first date?"

Me: (uber naive and more then a tad gullible) "Like, as in how far would I travel?"

Him: (laughing) "Nooooo, like would you have sex or give the guy a blow job?"

Me: (choking on my chicken pesto) "Ermmmmmm ........."

Him: "Surely you have rules?"


I'm just gonna cut in here and say he was asking me this like it was the most normal thing in the world to discuss on a first date.


Me: "Rules?"


Cutting in again, yes I actually do have rules, well more guidelines really but I didn't really feel the need to spill them to this guy over our first dinner.


Him: "Yeah rules, like my friend gives head on the first date but no sex....."


At this point I almost choked again and to be honest I didn't know whether to cry or laugh. I mean is this what life has come to? Lay your cards on the table on a first date because there are plenty other girls willing to give it up if your not ..... Maybe I'm over reacting? But that's honestly the way it felt!!

Now I am no angel and I honestly don't pretend to be but seriously could this chat not have waited til he at least knew a little bit more about me? What happened to letting things just happen, this guy wanted a time table of what he was gonna get and when, lol.

Lets just say we never did make plans for a second date! 

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